Now you can send a HotKiss to your chatting partner while you chat right in the Instant Message Window (requiers Internet Explorer to send Hot Kiss).

Another Gold Member feature, Instant Messaging. Any time you see the icon next to a members name, just click the smiley Instant Message icon and send that member an Instant Message. The receiving member does not have to be on the site when you send the message. Their message will be stored up to 24 hours.

To see if you have any instant message, look on the left column of any page.  Just look for the   icon. You will see new Instant Messages under the box labeled "New Messages Waiting For You".  If you have messages waiting the smiley icon will appear next to the members online status icon and their name.